Choices and the SAT
If there’s one thing I’ve learned about life, it’s made up of a lot of little choices and some very large decisions. The choice to eat bran cereal or pancakes for breakfast won’t alter the course of your life too much, unless you have issues with sugar and/or fiber. Decisions about whether or not to study for the biology test tomorrow or signing up to take the SAT are decisions that matter in the long run. You’re making responsible choices. I know, I know. You’re thinking that being responsible sounds an awful lot like being boring. Adult. Well, you’d be correct on that count. It is being adult about things, which despite what you may have thought in the past, does not mean it’s a bad thing. You’re about to leave high school and enter the adult world where your decisions have more weight.
I’m not trying to harsh your mellow and make your future seem like drudgery and dullness forever because it’s not. There is so much after high school that is fun and exciting but you have to balance that with good choices. Emily Stolzenberg, a Princeton Review columnist, wrote about feeling conflicted when making decisions that would affect her future when it felt like those choices to be made were interfering with her present. Her column is entitled ‘Conflicting Decisions’
So many times since graduation, I’ve longed to return to the time when my parents took care of my important decisions. I would preserve the choice of which friends to frequent, which books to read, which clothes to wear, which pastimes to pursue. They would be accountable for scheduling and transporting me to doctors’ appointments, completing insurance claims and filling prescriptions, doing laundry and paying bills. They can keep the responsibility, and I’ll just have fun. Like Peter Pan, I never want to grow up. I’m perfectly willing to act the adult and to demand adult treatment, but I never want to have to make adult choices.
(http://www.dailyprincetonian.com/archives/2004/04/07/opinion/10157.shtml)
The problem with that feeling is that eventually you have to
grow up and take control of your life.
Remember jumping off a dock into ice cold water? The shock to your system is quite profound. I’ve found that slowly dipping my toes into the water and gradually getting my body used to the chill enables me to finally enter my entire body into the water. It might be like that with you and making the decisions you need to make on your way to becoming an adult. Hopefully your parents are there to help you and guide you slowly in this process. They’ve nudged you in the direction you need to go, reminded you to do your homework, study for your tests and prepare for the SAT. Now it’s up to you.
